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Dating app cheating statistics

Dating app cheating statistics: what the research actually says

Every number on this page links to the study or poll it came from, with the year and who was asked. Some of the most shared figures turn out to be a decade old, or much shakier than they look.

Most studies find that a minority of dating app users are already partnered, and the estimates vary a lot. A 2018 study found 22.4% of 1,486 Tinder users were in a committed relationship. A 2025 IFS/YouGov survey found 11% of married Americans under 40 were using dating apps. The famous “42% of Tinder users are in a relationship” figure comes from a 2015 survey that Tinder publicly disputed.

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How many dating app users are already in a relationship?

Nobody outside the apps can count every profile. What exists is a handful of surveys, each asking a different group a different question.

Dating apps and relationship status

U.S. adults who have ever used a dating site or app
Figure30%, including 9% in the past year
Who was asked6,034 U.S. adults, July 2022
SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [1]
Married U.S. adults who have ever used one
Figure16%, compared with 52% of never-married adults
Who was askedSame survey
SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [1]
Online daters who have ever used Tinder
Figure46%, rising to 79% of users under 30
Who was askedSame survey
SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [1]
Partnered adults who met their partner on a dating site or app
Figure10%, rising to 20% of partnered adults under 30
Who was askedSame survey
SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [1]
Married adults under 40 currently using a dating app or site
Figure11% (18% of married men, 6% of married women)
Who was asked2,000 U.S. adults ages 18 to 39
SourceInstitute for Family Studies/YouGov, 2025 [2]
Under-40 dating app users who are married
Figure24%
Who was askedSame survey
SourceInstitute for Family Studies/YouGov, 2025 [2]
Tinder users in a committed relationship
Figure22.4% (333 of 1,486)
Who was askedTinder users who answered a survey shared by newspapers, magazines, and social media
SourceTimmermans, De Caluwé & Alexopoulos, 2018 [3]
Partnered Tinder users who had met another Tinder user face to face
Figure52% (64 of 123)
Who was askedPartnered users in one of that study’s two samples
SourceTimmermans, De Caluwé & Alexopoulos, 2018 [3]
Past-month Tinder users who said they were married or in a relationship
FigureJust over 45% (34% married, 11% in a relationship)
Who was asked1,282 Tinder users among 95,118 internet users aged 16 to 64 in 34 markets
SourceGlobalWebIndex, August 2015 [4]
Tinder users who are married, according to Tinder
Figure1.7%
Who was askedTinder said it surveyed 265,000 of its users
SourceTinder, August 2015, as reported by Fortune [6]
Each row comes from a different survey with a different question, so don’t add the numbers together or compare them directly. Bracketed numbers refer to the sources at the bottom of this page.

Published figures run from Tinder’s own 1.7% (married users only) to just over 45% (married or partnered, from a global 2015 panel). The newer studies sit in between, at 22.4% and 24%.

Where did “42% of Tinder users are in a relationship” come from?

It started on April 24, 2015, with a blog post called “What to Know About Tinder in 5 Charts” from GlobalWebIndex, the market research firm now called GWI. The text said about half of Tinder’s users called themselves single and that a significant portion were already in a relationship. The exact split sat in a chart. [5]

News outlets ran the chart’s numbers: 30% of Tinder users married, 12% in a relationship, 54% single, and 3% divorced or widowed. The 42% that still circulates is the first two added together. So “30% are married” and “42% are in a relationship” describe the same group of people. [7]

Tinder disputed the figures that week and called the study inaccurate. In August 2015 it went further on Twitter, saying its own survey of 265,000 users found 1.7% were married. [6] [7]

GWI answered the next day with the details. Its numbers came from an online survey of 95,118 internet users aged 16 to 64 in 34 markets, and 1,282 of them had used Tinder in the past month. In that group, 34% said they were married and 11% said they were in a relationship. In the UK and US, GWI said, about two-thirds of Tinder users were single. [4]

Should you still quote it?

  • It’s more than ten years old. Tinder, its users, and dating habits have all changed since 2015.
  • It came from a global panel. GWI said far more of Tinder’s audience was partnered in regions where people tend to marry young, and fewer where they marry later. [4]
  • People gave their relationship status at the start of a general survey about their online lives. GWI noted that this can differ from what someone tells Tinder. [4]
  • It measured who uses Tinder, not why. GWI read its data as a sign that Tinder worked as a social app, and it didn’t measure cheating at all. [4]
  • Tinder’s 1.7% is a company statement about its own users, which isn’t independent research either. [6]

If you need one accurate line: in 2015, a market research panel found that just over 45% of people who had used Tinder in the past month were married or in a relationship, and Tinder said its own data put married users at 1.7%.

How common is cheating in general?

Most infidelity research asks about marriage, not apps. The General Social Survey, a long-running survey of U.S. adults, asks people who have ever been married whether they’ve had sex with someone other than their spouse while married. YouGov asks a broader question that includes emotional cheating.

Infidelity prevalence

Ever-married adults who have had sex with someone other than their spouse while married
FigureMen 20%, women 13%
Who was askedEver-married U.S. adults, General Social Survey
SourceInstitute for Family Studies analysis, January 2018 [8]
The same measure for ever-married adults ages 25 to 54, over time
Figure17% (1991–1998), 14% (2010–2018), 13% (2021–2022)
Who was askedEver-married U.S. adults ages 25 to 54, General Social Survey
SourceInstitute for Family Studies analysis, August 2025 [9]
The same group in the latest data, by sex
FigureMen 11%, women 14% (the gap isn’t statistically significant)
Who was askedSame
SourceInstitute for Family Studies analysis, August 2025 [9]
Ever-married adults who reported an affair
FigureMen 20%, women 10%
Who was asked1,282 ever-married U.S. adults surveyed by YouGov in late 2019
SourceInstitute for Family Studies, iFidelity Survey analysis, 2020 [10]
Americans who say they have ever cheated on a partner
Figure33% (physically, emotionally, or both)
Who was askedPeople who have ever been in a monogamous relationship, from 2,000 U.S. adult citizens, September 2022
SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
Americans who say they have been cheated on
Figure54%
Who was askedSame
SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
People in a monogamous relationship now who say their current partner has cheated on them
Figure18%
Who was askedSame
SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
People who have ever used dating apps or sites who have used them to cheat
Figure7%
Who was askedYouGov Omnibus poll of U.S. adults
SourceYouGov, February 2019 [12]
Current dating app or site users who say cheating is one of their reasons
Figure17%
Who was askedSame poll
SourceYouGov, February 2019 [12]
Students who, while in an exclusive relationship, messaged / spent time with / were physically intimate with / had sex with someone from Tinder
Figure17.1% / 12.5% / 8.9% / 7.2%
Who was asked550 undergraduates at one U.S. university
SourceWeiser et al., 2018 [13] [14]
Bracketed numbers refer to the sources at the bottom of this page.

The gap between 13% and 33% comes mostly from the question. The General Social Survey counts sex outside a marriage. YouGov counts any cheating, physical or emotional, in any monogamous relationship a person has ever had. The dating app rows come from narrower samples, so treat them as signals rather than national rates.

How do people find out?

Data on how cheating comes to light is thin, and almost none of it is about dating apps. What exists shows how often partners check and how often cheating is discovered.

How people notice, check, and find out

Students who had seen someone on Tinder they knew was in an exclusive relationship
Figure63.9%
Who was asked550 undergraduates (Weiser et al.)
SourceAs reported in Timmermans et al., 2018 [3]
Students who said a male friend had used Tinder while in a relationship
Figure73.1% (56.1% said the same of a female friend)
Who was askedSame
SourceAs reported in Timmermans et al., 2018 [3]
Partnered adults who have looked through a partner’s phone without them knowing
Figure34% (42% of women, 25% of men; 52% of those 18 to 29)
Who was asked4,860 U.S. adults, October 2019
SourcePew Research Center, 2020 [15]
Adults who say looking through a partner’s phone without their knowledge is rarely or never acceptable
Figure70%
Who was askedSame survey
SourcePew Research Center, 2020 [15]
Partnered adults who have felt jealous or unsure because of how their partner interacts with others on social media
Figure23% (34% of those 18 to 29)
Who was askedPartnered adults whose partner uses social media, same survey
SourcePew Research Center, 2020 [15]
People who have cheated who say at least one partner found out
Figure57%
Who was asked2,000 U.S. adult citizens, September 2022
SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
People who have been cheated on who are glad they found out
Figure83% of women, 79% of men
Who was askedSame
SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
People who have ever used a dating site or app who have ever paid for one
Figure35%
Who was asked6,034 U.S. adults, July 2022
SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [16]
Bracketed numbers refer to the sources at the bottom of this page.

When YouGov asked people who had been cheated on how they found out, many said their partner told them. [11]

The last row matters if you plan to look at bank statements. Only about a third of people who have tried online dating have ever paid, so many profiles never create a charge at all. Our guide to dating app charges on a bank statement shows how each app bills.

How to read these numbers

  • Check who was asked. A national random sample, a global internet panel, Tinder users who answered a newspaper link, and students at one university can give very different answers to the same question.
  • Check the question. “Have you ever cheated?” covers a whole life. “Are you on a dating app now?” is a snapshot. “Sex outside your marriage” leaves out emotional affairs and unmarried couples.
  • Check the definition. In the iFidelity Survey, people with stricter definitions of cheating were less likely to report an affair, so the definition shapes the count. [10]
  • Check the date. The 42% claim is from 2015. The General Social Survey moved from in-person interviews to online and mixed modes in 2021 and 2022, which IFS says may complicate comparisons over time. [9]
  • Remember it’s self-reported. Every figure here is what people chose to tell a researcher, and some people don’t answer honestly about things they’re ashamed of.
  • A statistic is never a verdict. Knowing that 13% or 33% of people say they have cheated tells you nothing about your partner.

What the numbers can’t tell you about your partner

If you’re worried, these numbers can make you feel better or worse depending on which one you read first. What helps more is what you’ve actually noticed, and a clear answer about whether a profile exists.

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What percentage of Tinder users are in a relationship?

It depends on the study. A 2018 study of 1,486 Tinder users found 22.4% were in a committed relationship. A 2015 GlobalWebIndex panel put it at just over 45% worldwide, with about two-thirds of users single in the UK and US. Tinder hasn’t published an independent figure; in 2015 it said 1.7% of its users were married.

Is it true that 30% of Tinder users are married?

That number comes from a 2015 GlobalWebIndex chart of people worldwide who had used Tinder in the past month. Tinder disputed it and said its own data showed 1.7%. GWI’s later write-up put married users at 34% globally. All of it is more than ten years old, so don’t quote it as a current fact.

How many married people use dating apps?

In a 2025 IFS/YouGov survey of adults under 40, 11% of married respondents said they were currently using a dating app or site, including 18% of married men and 6% of married women. Pew found 16% of married adults have ever used one, which can include use from before the marriage.

What are the latest infidelity statistics for 2026?

The newest sourced figures we found: in a July 2026 YouGov poll of 1,882 British adults, 80% said using a dating app while in a relationship is cheating [17]. An August 2025 IFS analysis of General Social Survey data found 13% of ever-married Americans ages 25 to 54 reported sex outside their marriage in 2021 and 2022 [9].

Do people who cheat on dating apps get caught?

Sometimes, and the apps can make it easier than people expect. In a study of 550 undergraduates, 63.9% had seen someone on Tinder they knew was in an exclusive relationship. In YouGov’s 2022 poll, 57% of people who had cheated said at least one partner found out.

Are online infidelity statistics reliable?

Treat them as rough guides. Most come from people describing their own behavior, samples range from one university to global panels, and the definition of cheating changes from survey to survey. Check the source, year, and sample before you share a number.
Statistics describe large groups of strangers. They can’t tell you what your partner is doing, and neither can a single profile. A match is never proof of cheating on its own, and finding nothing doesn’t prove there’s nothing there.

Sources

Checked October 2026. Numbers match the bracketed references in the tables and text above.

  1. [1] Pew Research Center: Key findings about online dating in the U.S. (2023)
  2. [2] Institute for Family Studies: 1 in 10 Married Young Adults Are on Dating Sites (2025)
  3. [3] Timmermans, De Caluwé & Alexopoulos: Why are you cheating on Tinder? Computers in Human Behavior (2018)
  4. [4] GWI: Why Tinder Has a Lot of Positives to Shout About (August 2015)
  5. [5] GlobalWebIndex: What to Know About Tinder in 5 Charts (April 2015, archived copy)
  6. [6] Fortune: Tinder’s August 2015 Twitter response, including its 1.7% figure
  7. [7] TIME: coverage of the 2015 GlobalWebIndex figures and Tinder’s response
  8. [8] Institute for Family Studies: Who Cheats More? The Demographics of Infidelity in America (2018)
  9. [9] Institute for Family Studies: Men With Prestigious Jobs Are More Likely to Cheat (2025)
  10. [10] Institute for Family Studies: Predicting Infidelity, an iFidelity Survey analysis (2020)
  11. [11] YouGov: How many Americans have cheated on their partners in monogamous relationships? (2022)
  12. [12] YouGov: What Americans think about dating apps (2019)
  13. [13] Weiser et al.: Swiping right, Personality and Individual Differences (2018)
  14. [14] Texas Tech University release on the Weiser study, via Medical Xpress (2018)
  15. [15] Pew Research Center: Dating and Relationships in the Digital Age (2020)
  16. [16] Pew Research Center: From Looking for Love to Swiping the Field (2023)
  17. [17] YouGov: Section 4, cheating in relationships (August 2026)

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