Dating app cheating statistics
Dating app cheating statistics: what the research actually says
Every number on this page links to the study or poll it came from, with the year and who was asked. Some of the most shared figures turn out to be a decade old, or much shakier than they look.
Most studies find that a minority of dating app users are already partnered, and the estimates vary a lot. A 2018 study found 22.4% of 1,486 Tinder users were in a committed relationship. A 2025 IFS/YouGov survey found 11% of married Americans under 40 were using dating apps. The famous “42% of Tinder users are in a relationship” figure comes from a 2015 survey that Tinder publicly disputed.
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How many dating app users are already in a relationship?
Nobody outside the apps can count every profile. What exists is a handful of surveys, each asking a different group a different question.
Dating apps and relationship status
- U.S. adults who have ever used a dating site or app
- Figure30%, including 9% in the past year
- Who was asked6,034 U.S. adults, July 2022
- SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [1]
- Married U.S. adults who have ever used one
- Figure16%, compared with 52% of never-married adults
- Who was askedSame survey
- SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [1]
- Online daters who have ever used Tinder
- Figure46%, rising to 79% of users under 30
- Who was askedSame survey
- SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [1]
- Partnered adults who met their partner on a dating site or app
- Figure10%, rising to 20% of partnered adults under 30
- Who was askedSame survey
- SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [1]
- Married adults under 40 currently using a dating app or site
- Figure11% (18% of married men, 6% of married women)
- Who was asked2,000 U.S. adults ages 18 to 39
- SourceInstitute for Family Studies/YouGov, 2025 [2]
- Under-40 dating app users who are married
- Figure24%
- Who was askedSame survey
- SourceInstitute for Family Studies/YouGov, 2025 [2]
- Tinder users in a committed relationship
- Figure22.4% (333 of 1,486)
- Who was askedTinder users who answered a survey shared by newspapers, magazines, and social media
- SourceTimmermans, De Caluwé & Alexopoulos, 2018 [3]
- Partnered Tinder users who had met another Tinder user face to face
- Figure52% (64 of 123)
- Who was askedPartnered users in one of that study’s two samples
- SourceTimmermans, De Caluwé & Alexopoulos, 2018 [3]
- Past-month Tinder users who said they were married or in a relationship
- FigureJust over 45% (34% married, 11% in a relationship)
- Who was asked1,282 Tinder users among 95,118 internet users aged 16 to 64 in 34 markets
- SourceGlobalWebIndex, August 2015 [4]
- Tinder users who are married, according to Tinder
- Figure1.7%
- Who was askedTinder said it surveyed 265,000 of its users
- SourceTinder, August 2015, as reported by Fortune [6]
| Finding | Figure | Who was asked | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| U.S. adults who have ever used a dating site or app | 30%, including 9% in the past year | 6,034 U.S. adults, July 2022 | Pew Research Center, 2023 [1] |
| Married U.S. adults who have ever used one | 16%, compared with 52% of never-married adults | Same survey | Pew Research Center, 2023 [1] |
| Online daters who have ever used Tinder | 46%, rising to 79% of users under 30 | Same survey | Pew Research Center, 2023 [1] |
| Partnered adults who met their partner on a dating site or app | 10%, rising to 20% of partnered adults under 30 | Same survey | Pew Research Center, 2023 [1] |
| Married adults under 40 currently using a dating app or site | 11% (18% of married men, 6% of married women) | 2,000 U.S. adults ages 18 to 39 | Institute for Family Studies/YouGov, 2025 [2] |
| Under-40 dating app users who are married | 24% | Same survey | Institute for Family Studies/YouGov, 2025 [2] |
| Tinder users in a committed relationship | 22.4% (333 of 1,486) | Tinder users who answered a survey shared by newspapers, magazines, and social media | Timmermans, De Caluwé & Alexopoulos, 2018 [3] |
| Partnered Tinder users who had met another Tinder user face to face | 52% (64 of 123) | Partnered users in one of that study’s two samples | Timmermans, De Caluwé & Alexopoulos, 2018 [3] |
| Past-month Tinder users who said they were married or in a relationship | Just over 45% (34% married, 11% in a relationship) | 1,282 Tinder users among 95,118 internet users aged 16 to 64 in 34 markets | GlobalWebIndex, August 2015 [4] |
| Tinder users who are married, according to Tinder | 1.7% | Tinder said it surveyed 265,000 of its users | Tinder, August 2015, as reported by Fortune [6] |
Published figures run from Tinder’s own 1.7% (married users only) to just over 45% (married or partnered, from a global 2015 panel). The newer studies sit in between, at 22.4% and 24%.
Where did “42% of Tinder users are in a relationship” come from?
It started on April 24, 2015, with a blog post called “What to Know About Tinder in 5 Charts” from GlobalWebIndex, the market research firm now called GWI. The text said about half of Tinder’s users called themselves single and that a significant portion were already in a relationship. The exact split sat in a chart. [5]
News outlets ran the chart’s numbers: 30% of Tinder users married, 12% in a relationship, 54% single, and 3% divorced or widowed. The 42% that still circulates is the first two added together. So “30% are married” and “42% are in a relationship” describe the same group of people. [7]
Tinder disputed the figures that week and called the study inaccurate. In August 2015 it went further on Twitter, saying its own survey of 265,000 users found 1.7% were married. [6] [7]
GWI answered the next day with the details. Its numbers came from an online survey of 95,118 internet users aged 16 to 64 in 34 markets, and 1,282 of them had used Tinder in the past month. In that group, 34% said they were married and 11% said they were in a relationship. In the UK and US, GWI said, about two-thirds of Tinder users were single. [4]
Should you still quote it?
- It’s more than ten years old. Tinder, its users, and dating habits have all changed since 2015.
- It came from a global panel. GWI said far more of Tinder’s audience was partnered in regions where people tend to marry young, and fewer where they marry later. [4]
- People gave their relationship status at the start of a general survey about their online lives. GWI noted that this can differ from what someone tells Tinder. [4]
- It measured who uses Tinder, not why. GWI read its data as a sign that Tinder worked as a social app, and it didn’t measure cheating at all. [4]
- Tinder’s 1.7% is a company statement about its own users, which isn’t independent research either. [6]
If you need one accurate line: in 2015, a market research panel found that just over 45% of people who had used Tinder in the past month were married or in a relationship, and Tinder said its own data put married users at 1.7%.
How common is cheating in general?
Most infidelity research asks about marriage, not apps. The General Social Survey, a long-running survey of U.S. adults, asks people who have ever been married whether they’ve had sex with someone other than their spouse while married. YouGov asks a broader question that includes emotional cheating.
Infidelity prevalence
- Ever-married adults who have had sex with someone other than their spouse while married
- FigureMen 20%, women 13%
- Who was askedEver-married U.S. adults, General Social Survey
- SourceInstitute for Family Studies analysis, January 2018 [8]
- The same measure for ever-married adults ages 25 to 54, over time
- Figure17% (1991–1998), 14% (2010–2018), 13% (2021–2022)
- Who was askedEver-married U.S. adults ages 25 to 54, General Social Survey
- SourceInstitute for Family Studies analysis, August 2025 [9]
- The same group in the latest data, by sex
- FigureMen 11%, women 14% (the gap isn’t statistically significant)
- Who was askedSame
- SourceInstitute for Family Studies analysis, August 2025 [9]
- Ever-married adults who reported an affair
- FigureMen 20%, women 10%
- Who was asked1,282 ever-married U.S. adults surveyed by YouGov in late 2019
- SourceInstitute for Family Studies, iFidelity Survey analysis, 2020 [10]
- Americans who say they have ever cheated on a partner
- Figure33% (physically, emotionally, or both)
- Who was askedPeople who have ever been in a monogamous relationship, from 2,000 U.S. adult citizens, September 2022
- SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
- Americans who say they have been cheated on
- Figure54%
- Who was askedSame
- SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
- People in a monogamous relationship now who say their current partner has cheated on them
- Figure18%
- Who was askedSame
- SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
- People who have ever used dating apps or sites who have used them to cheat
- Figure7%
- Who was askedYouGov Omnibus poll of U.S. adults
- SourceYouGov, February 2019 [12]
- Current dating app or site users who say cheating is one of their reasons
- Figure17%
- Who was askedSame poll
- SourceYouGov, February 2019 [12]
- Students who, while in an exclusive relationship, messaged / spent time with / were physically intimate with / had sex with someone from Tinder
- Figure17.1% / 12.5% / 8.9% / 7.2%
- Who was asked550 undergraduates at one U.S. university
- SourceWeiser et al., 2018 [13] [14]
| Finding | Figure | Who was asked | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| Ever-married adults who have had sex with someone other than their spouse while married | Men 20%, women 13% | Ever-married U.S. adults, General Social Survey | Institute for Family Studies analysis, January 2018 [8] |
| The same measure for ever-married adults ages 25 to 54, over time | 17% (1991–1998), 14% (2010–2018), 13% (2021–2022) | Ever-married U.S. adults ages 25 to 54, General Social Survey | Institute for Family Studies analysis, August 2025 [9] |
| The same group in the latest data, by sex | Men 11%, women 14% (the gap isn’t statistically significant) | Same | Institute for Family Studies analysis, August 2025 [9] |
| Ever-married adults who reported an affair | Men 20%, women 10% | 1,282 ever-married U.S. adults surveyed by YouGov in late 2019 | Institute for Family Studies, iFidelity Survey analysis, 2020 [10] |
| Americans who say they have ever cheated on a partner | 33% (physically, emotionally, or both) | People who have ever been in a monogamous relationship, from 2,000 U.S. adult citizens, September 2022 | YouGov, 2022 [11] |
| Americans who say they have been cheated on | 54% | Same | YouGov, 2022 [11] |
| People in a monogamous relationship now who say their current partner has cheated on them | 18% | Same | YouGov, 2022 [11] |
| People who have ever used dating apps or sites who have used them to cheat | 7% | YouGov Omnibus poll of U.S. adults | YouGov, February 2019 [12] |
| Current dating app or site users who say cheating is one of their reasons | 17% | Same poll | YouGov, February 2019 [12] |
| Students who, while in an exclusive relationship, messaged / spent time with / were physically intimate with / had sex with someone from Tinder | 17.1% / 12.5% / 8.9% / 7.2% | 550 undergraduates at one U.S. university | Weiser et al., 2018 [13] [14] |
The gap between 13% and 33% comes mostly from the question. The General Social Survey counts sex outside a marriage. YouGov counts any cheating, physical or emotional, in any monogamous relationship a person has ever had. The dating app rows come from narrower samples, so treat them as signals rather than national rates.
How do people find out?
Data on how cheating comes to light is thin, and almost none of it is about dating apps. What exists shows how often partners check and how often cheating is discovered.
How people notice, check, and find out
- Students who had seen someone on Tinder they knew was in an exclusive relationship
- Figure63.9%
- Who was asked550 undergraduates (Weiser et al.)
- SourceAs reported in Timmermans et al., 2018 [3]
- Students who said a male friend had used Tinder while in a relationship
- Figure73.1% (56.1% said the same of a female friend)
- Who was askedSame
- SourceAs reported in Timmermans et al., 2018 [3]
- Partnered adults who have looked through a partner’s phone without them knowing
- Figure34% (42% of women, 25% of men; 52% of those 18 to 29)
- Who was asked4,860 U.S. adults, October 2019
- SourcePew Research Center, 2020 [15]
- Adults who say looking through a partner’s phone without their knowledge is rarely or never acceptable
- Figure70%
- Who was askedSame survey
- SourcePew Research Center, 2020 [15]
- Partnered adults who have felt jealous or unsure because of how their partner interacts with others on social media
- Figure23% (34% of those 18 to 29)
- Who was askedPartnered adults whose partner uses social media, same survey
- SourcePew Research Center, 2020 [15]
- People who have cheated who say at least one partner found out
- Figure57%
- Who was asked2,000 U.S. adult citizens, September 2022
- SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
- People who have been cheated on who are glad they found out
- Figure83% of women, 79% of men
- Who was askedSame
- SourceYouGov, 2022 [11]
- People who have ever used a dating site or app who have ever paid for one
- Figure35%
- Who was asked6,034 U.S. adults, July 2022
- SourcePew Research Center, 2023 [16]
| Finding | Figure | Who was asked | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| Students who had seen someone on Tinder they knew was in an exclusive relationship | 63.9% | 550 undergraduates (Weiser et al.) | As reported in Timmermans et al., 2018 [3] |
| Students who said a male friend had used Tinder while in a relationship | 73.1% (56.1% said the same of a female friend) | Same | As reported in Timmermans et al., 2018 [3] |
| Partnered adults who have looked through a partner’s phone without them knowing | 34% (42% of women, 25% of men; 52% of those 18 to 29) | 4,860 U.S. adults, October 2019 | Pew Research Center, 2020 [15] |
| Adults who say looking through a partner’s phone without their knowledge is rarely or never acceptable | 70% | Same survey | Pew Research Center, 2020 [15] |
| Partnered adults who have felt jealous or unsure because of how their partner interacts with others on social media | 23% (34% of those 18 to 29) | Partnered adults whose partner uses social media, same survey | Pew Research Center, 2020 [15] |
| People who have cheated who say at least one partner found out | 57% | 2,000 U.S. adult citizens, September 2022 | YouGov, 2022 [11] |
| People who have been cheated on who are glad they found out | 83% of women, 79% of men | Same | YouGov, 2022 [11] |
| People who have ever used a dating site or app who have ever paid for one | 35% | 6,034 U.S. adults, July 2022 | Pew Research Center, 2023 [16] |
When YouGov asked people who had been cheated on how they found out, many said their partner told them. [11]
The last row matters if you plan to look at bank statements. Only about a third of people who have tried online dating have ever paid, so many profiles never create a charge at all. Our guide to dating app charges on a bank statement shows how each app bills.
How to read these numbers
- Check who was asked. A national random sample, a global internet panel, Tinder users who answered a newspaper link, and students at one university can give very different answers to the same question.
- Check the question. “Have you ever cheated?” covers a whole life. “Are you on a dating app now?” is a snapshot. “Sex outside your marriage” leaves out emotional affairs and unmarried couples.
- Check the definition. In the iFidelity Survey, people with stricter definitions of cheating were less likely to report an affair, so the definition shapes the count. [10]
- Check the date. The 42% claim is from 2015. The General Social Survey moved from in-person interviews to online and mixed modes in 2021 and 2022, which IFS says may complicate comparisons over time. [9]
- Remember it’s self-reported. Every figure here is what people chose to tell a researcher, and some people don’t answer honestly about things they’re ashamed of.
- A statistic is never a verdict. Knowing that 13% or 33% of people say they have cheated tells you nothing about your partner.
What the numbers can’t tell you about your partner
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Sources
Checked October 2026. Numbers match the bracketed references in the tables and text above.
- [1] Pew Research Center: Key findings about online dating in the U.S. (2023)
- [2] Institute for Family Studies: 1 in 10 Married Young Adults Are on Dating Sites (2025)
- [3] Timmermans, De Caluwé & Alexopoulos: Why are you cheating on Tinder? Computers in Human Behavior (2018)
- [4] GWI: Why Tinder Has a Lot of Positives to Shout About (August 2015)
- [5] GlobalWebIndex: What to Know About Tinder in 5 Charts (April 2015, archived copy)
- [6] Fortune: Tinder’s August 2015 Twitter response, including its 1.7% figure
- [7] TIME: coverage of the 2015 GlobalWebIndex figures and Tinder’s response
- [8] Institute for Family Studies: Who Cheats More? The Demographics of Infidelity in America (2018)
- [9] Institute for Family Studies: Men With Prestigious Jobs Are More Likely to Cheat (2025)
- [10] Institute for Family Studies: Predicting Infidelity, an iFidelity Survey analysis (2020)
- [11] YouGov: How many Americans have cheated on their partners in monogamous relationships? (2022)
- [12] YouGov: What Americans think about dating apps (2019)
- [13] Weiser et al.: Swiping right, Personality and Individual Differences (2018)
- [14] Texas Tech University release on the Weiser study, via Medical Xpress (2018)
- [15] Pew Research Center: Dating and Relationships in the Digital Age (2020)
- [16] Pew Research Center: From Looking for Love to Swiping the Field (2023)
- [17] YouGov: Section 4, cheating in relationships (August 2026)
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